How to fix my relationship with a Japanese woman?
Collin writes, “I’m in a relationship with a Japanese lady and we have a 3 month old girl. We ran into each other online and then met in person. Just as I was going back to my native country in Europe, she told me she was expecting and it was great news. The problem is due to another relationship with a Japanese girl that went really sour I had to go back to the UK for court and I ended in prison for 9 months. But I find now that my partner is giving me these slient treatments. All I get back is blank stares or slight nods or shakes of the head. My Ex did this as well. So I must being doing something very wrong. Can anyone give me some help?”
Regardless of a woman’s ethnicity, it is extremely painful for anyone to see her man in jail. In Japanese society, it is a huge problem, where only the worst criminals go to jail. You have brought enormous embarrassment to her and her family and she is angry with you and the situation in which you have put her.
In typical Japanese fashion, you will need to apologize to her and her family. Ask her how to make it happen after you express your profound apology to her.
Japanese women can be very quiet and never really say what they actually feel. That is why the silent treatment. So talk to her as much as you can and help her get her anger and frustration out. If possible, try to get her out of Japan so that she can live in a society where people do not look down upon her.
