My experience seducing a Japanese girl
Dear Pierre,
After I read your book The Japanese Girls Sleepover, I thought I will share my brief story.
Well, like the narrator in the book, my girlfriend and I also act as local host family for a pair of Japanese university students (while we have a choice to pick either males or females we deliberately choose only girls because it just sounds weird to have two guys in the house and so many Japanese men smoke). Once, it so happened that we invited these women to spend the weekend with us but at the last moment my girlfriend could not make it home from a business trip due to a snowstorm on Friday. Since it was too late to cancel, and obviously I was tempted by having the house all to myself with two pretty Asian chicks, I still decided to host them.
When I arrived on campus, I learned that one of the girls was actually sick and only one of them was going to be coming. When I mentioned that we would be alone, Hiroko’s reaction was as if I had told her that tonight’s low will be in 30s. We arrived at my house and Hiroko acted quite at home within an hour but she pulled out her laptop and started to work on it. She barely responded to my questions and sounded very aloof. I had not known her very well so far but do have some experience dealing with Japanese women having taught English in Nagano for a year.
There was a time when I almost felt like dropping her back at her apartment after dinner because being stuck with a boring woman was not my idea of spending a weekend as a single. Fortunately, little by little after having her full attention at dinner, I was able to make her talk a bit more. I learned that she was a geek with very poor social skills. She told me that her interests include foreign policy, world history, and literature and very soon we started to talk about a range of topics including the Middle East and Europe. I think we made a lot of progress because she really opened up and warmed up to me.
Later on that evening, we both managed to get into the same blanket and cuddled the whole time. I was surprised to learn that she did not really care for men or relationships because she was just one of those asexual Japanese people who have simply given up on relationships. I did not want to push any farther than that for fear of being accused of misbehavior or harassment but I was still surprised how easy it was to get into the same blanket as if we were a couple.