My husband and Japanese mother are having sex
As I blogged previously, my book My Other Mom Is A Teacher has been a bestseller because it seems to tell a real story of an American man who had a relationship with his Japanese girlfriend but also her mother while he was in Japan. He never found out if the two women knew about what was going on, or if it was a plan that they hatched together, or if it was just a naughty mature Japanese lady taking advantage of the situation, but he sure had two unique sets of experiences with them.
After buying my book and reading it, I have received an email from Junko, a Japanese woman married to an American man and the couple lives in Virginia. After her father passed away, she decided to help her mother immigrate to the United States so that she could live close to her. This is her story of how her husband and his mother-in-law started to have a relationship:
”My husband, Peter, recently started spending more time at work so I knew something was up. My main curiosity was if it was a girl or a guy, because if there is one thing my hubby and I have in common is that we both like men (yes, he is bisexual) and as long as he is good to me and continues to be a good father, I look the other way. After all, from time to time, I have also had a few extramarital affairs of my own because as a contractor he often spends months at client sites.
One day when I knew he was more likely to come late, I waited near his office and followed him when he went out the gate. To my surprise, I realized that I had followed him to my mom’s house (who is in the same town as we are) which I thought was a little strange; first my reaction was that maybe she had called him to fix a leaky faucet or run an errand for her. I parked around the corner and after a while went into the house like I was “in the neighborhood.” I sneaked into the backyard and tried to peak through the window. Being a family member this was possible because if I had been caught I would have simply told my mother or husband that I was checking up on the flowers before coming in. I saw that they were both in my mom’s bedroom. My mom was lying on her stomach wearing just panties and brassiere and my husband was straddling her back giving her a massage. He was also only in his underwear but it was obvious he had an erection.
I was SHOCKED! My mom is 80 years old. I watched as he massaged her. He told her, “Okay, roll over,” and she did lying on her back. He pulled his penis out of his underwear and I could see my mom’s frail, old hand reach up and play with it. I was afraid as to what I’d see next, so I left. I cried all the way home. By the time he got home I pretended to be asleep. I did some soul searching for next few days and concluded that if it made my widowed mother happy, so be it. It’s just all kind of weird, though. I eventually told my hubby I knew what was going on so he didn’t have to lie about it anymore.
He then told me something about his own upbringing that I never knew. His dad died early in life and his young mother was left with him (I did know all that). What I never knew was that his mother would lie in bed at night and watch television. He got into the habit of lying in bed with her and falling asleep there. This continued well into his teens. He would wake in the morning to the sound of the shower and would position himself to see his mother walk out of the shower and get dressed while pretending to still be asleep. His mother caught him and told him that she knew he was spying on her as she dressed. She obviously didn’t mind because about a week later instead of getting up, going into the bathroom and closing the door, she woke him and told him to come take a rinse with her. He says he slept with her three or four days a week and showered with her about once a week. He said he would wash his mom’s back and give her a hug from behind when he was done so he could squeeze her breasts (she had some big ones, he tells me, because I never met her but her photos definitely show that he is right) and occasionally she would turn to him and give his dick a nice squeeze before getting out of the shower to dry off.
He says he jacked-off many a time after his mom left the shower. He says this continued all the way up until he left for college and made his leaving even harder for both him and his mom. Is that WEIRD or what? He said she would write saying that she missed their morning routine together. He says that’s why he likes sleeping right next to me with his arm around me and his right hand on my left breast. It’s a habit he grew up with and getting in bed with his mother in law is no big deal to him because he loves her and does not want to watch her be so lonely if there’s something he can do about it.
I know that Japanese women can be very sexual and they don’t have all the taboos that women in other religions and cultures have who almost all the time think of sex as a sin (being Christian is bad for your sex life, I guess). What surprised me is that Peter would be fine fucking an 80-year old. In some ways, I guess it is OK because my Mom is probably very lonely and if she enjoys sex, then why not do it. And as many people will agree with me, if she were to go out and try to find sex at this age, it won’t be easy. So it is kinda sweet of Peter to please his mother-in-law even if it means that he does not like it, though, I am assuming that he might very well have a fetish for older women and could be the one to get my mom into it in the first place.
I guess there is no reason for me to feel bad or put down Peter or to have a fight with my Mom because I know that this relationship will not lead to us getting a divorce or my loving husband ignoring me. Whatever time she has left, she should be able to enjoy it and if family members can help out, they should. I guess as a loving daughter I should be supportive of this and if I can arrange other sexual partners for her that would be a good act; I have recently started volunteering at a seniors home and am hoping that I can introduce one of the older, healthy males to her.”
